Friday, 24 July 2015

Wake me up

Hey Lovelies
There's a thing with starting things. I started something and now I need to retrace my steps back to where it all began.
It is saddening. 

How did we get here? 
It started with me thinking that I was writing into my blog a lot (some unpublished). It became my go to hobby and so I made a decision to cut down on the too much blogging.



Tuesday, 16 June 2015

Pop A smile

 Hey Lovelies
I am super excited to be back. Sorry I went MIA through out last week. I was a little under the weather.
This Nigerian weather was trying to mess with me but GODWIN.



Tuesday, 2 June 2015

Career Talks: Get rich fast?

Hey Lovelies
Last time we started talking about the benefits of a steady climb to success. 
Today I want to tell you about a theory.
It is my special theory on quick money. Awoof as Nigerians like to call it. When you "hit" it, what happens next?
This is where the bulk of this post lies, so bring out your paper and pens :)
Let me enlighten us about the difference between money in the hands of a wise man and a fool.
There is nothing as intoxicating like money in the hands of a fool. It can drive you to an early grave.



The basic difference is that a wise man remembers how hard he toiled to earn the money and how long it took them to set their work in progress before it manifested into an income generating venture so they spend time to think of ways to ensure that they never get back to that stage. 

Tuesday, 26 May 2015

Don't believe me just watch

Hey Lovelies
I just remembered when the ex asked me to stop dancing.
"Reason?" I asked 
Trust me to not take it sitting down. 
Him: You will have kids one day. Do you want your kids to see you jumping around like this?
Me: Yes, I want to actually challenge my kids to a hot one when I'm exactly 50. Go figure!
Those kids will be so fit. Even the mister will be, he just doesn't know it yet LOL

Him: You will be the First Lady one day, how can people take you seriously like this?
Me: oh wow! The entire state/nation would be so fit then ala Michelle Obama. Welcome to the 21st century.



Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Career Talks: Opt for a steady climb

Hey Lovelies
UPDATE:
Sorry for the admin issues recently. I've not been around, but I promise I'll be back fully soonest. The comment section is now working. Thanks for all the emails. Really sorry for the inconveniences. xo

Opt for a steady climb by Janyl Benyl
First things first, when you think of success, think of why you want it. Ask yourself this question.
"To show people that you too can be rich?"
Also ask yourself how you want to go about getting this wealth.
Seriously, Ill gotten wealth can torture your very existence. If you want it, it's best to do it right.



One of my readers sent me a message the other day. I had some free time so I had a quick chat with him. 
He was depressed because he was working so hard whereas his friends that were putting in less efforts were "very successful." They were driving fancy cars and basically 'living the life'. While he on the other hand felt like a total failure. He was sure that following the process he was going through, he would still be in the toiling phase for a couple of years before things ever started to look gleam. He felt bad for ever considering the longer route when there were so many faster lanes he could have taken.

Tuesday, 12 May 2015

I have some very innovative friends

Hey Lovelies
I love my friends 'cause they make me laugh a lot, like literally laugh a lot. Recently, it has been incredible. 
Is it me not catching up with the trends or are all my friends getting too ambitious delusional by the day?
So here are different discussions I had with 3 different friends.



Tuesday, 5 May 2015

Are you being abused?

Hey Lovelies
A lot of people are in abusive relationships and they have no clue. We are more tuned to recognize physical abuse yet are oblivious of the other kinds. More women tend to be victims of physical abuse while men are more often dealt the other types. These are just generalizations because any one can be a victim of any kind of abuse. The most important thing is being able to recognize the many forms of abuse and protecting yourself from them. 


Continue to take a look at them


Tuesday, 28 April 2015

Career Talks: Dare to be different

Hey Lovelies
For today's post, I am bringing another of my plenty tales from my days in Hungary.
Those years really shaped me a lot.


I resumed school later than most people, most of them were coming from all around Europe and I was coming from far away Africa. By the time I resumed, I had a talk with the registrar who told me I was so far behind on the course load and I would need to work twice as hard to ensure I wasn't left behind.

Tuesday, 21 April 2015

How to be "the man of her dreams"

Hey Lovelies
Here are a few things you can do to stay stuck in her head even when she is sleeping. Dreams? Nightmares? At least you're safely in her consciousness and unconsciousness LOL


Peep them below


Tuesday, 14 April 2015

Lose to Win

Hey Lovelies
I bet most of you think this would be about those that lost during the just concluded elections in Nigeria. Naa, I'm so happy we are so done with that now and I want to really facilitate our moving away from all that to "normal issues".
If it were to be just me, Nigeria would need to pause with elections until there is a major upgrade in the electoral system. Too many lapses with unnecessary risks to people's lives.
Almost everyone I called had tales of discrepancies in their polling units and no one seems to understand that these issues are hugely significant.

There is so much I can tell you about why I hate politics as played in Nigeria (ESP the one in my state) but like I like to say, I have no interest whatsoever for very apparent reasons. I am not sure if that might change say in 20 years or maybe 10, and that is because we are really hoping that things would change for the better, but right now? I am so not interested in even listening to anyone that is talking about Nigerian politics because they usually concentrate on vested interests.

Well done to everyone that braved all the challenges to go out and vote. 

Moving on, I was watching this performance by Fantasia and omg, that girl can sing.



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