I like you a lot 5

Hey lovelies
If you need to follow the story, click on any of the parts to read it
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 and Part 4

It was my friends wedding and I was part of the bridal train. We had to go over to the country side, like the outskirts of another city. It had beautiful surrounding and it was the perfect setting for a wedding. We stayed in the accommodation the couple to be provided. A nice detached house which housed the girls and we all had a room to ourselves. The guys stayed in another place just down the street. The city was renowned for it's nice resort center so people were smart enough to own apartments in the nearby were they could let out for the tourists. My friend was a romantic hopeless, I was too sure coming to chill with her friends in the little island for a week for the wedding was her idea.

Guess who was one of the groom's men? It was Marvin.

We were so happy to see each other again. The same feeling we were all too familiar with came all over again. He still looked so good. He had grown so much in just one year or was it just my eyes?  He complimented me as usual and I felt like we hadn't even left each other even for a bit 'cause the memories livened up like they were just yesterday. At that moment, I missed him again - his eyes, his smile, his laugh, every little bit.

Dear JB - My friend's husband wants me

Hey Lovelies
Hope everyone is enjoying the #oneposteveryday so far?

I leave my contact details here so I get a couple of fan mails, sometimes, they are questions these people are itching to get answers to? Perhaps, they just want another person's opinion.

I usually just reply them the best way I can there (that is on whatever channel they used to reach me), but this one got my attention in a great way and I decided to share it because I know most people are/should be asking this question. 

Dear JB

My friend's husband wants to divorce his wife and marry me. He said that sometimes people meet people to meet other people and that is just what happened between us. He said I'm the kind of girl he has always wanted to marry but he was tired of waiting, so he decided to make do with the available - his wife.  I could like him too, so far, I've been trying to prevent myself from paying attention. I know if I do, I'll definitely fall for him. He's that kind of guy. I do not seem to understand why he was in a hurry like he mentioned because he's still very young. He has been married for 2.5 years and he's just 7 years older than me. I on the other hand have never been married. The good thing is that there are no kids. They planned to start having kids later. I just might be turning my back on  my 'the one'.
Should I let go of my guards and let him in?

My friend is very pretty, I'm sure she will get someone else in no time.

Thanks
S.

Hi S.

I understand how it feels to know the man you like and cannot really be with him because my advice to you would be that you forget every plans of being with him. Do not even entertain the thoughts. Let's face it, there is no way another person's spouse can be your "the one" You sould not be the one breaking your friend's home. Leave them alone for a while, I'm sure they can sort things out with tine. If you need to stay away so the man can think properly, please do so. You owe that to your friend.


Dear lovelies, this will become a fixture on this blog, so feel free to use my contact details (click here) and send me questions on any aspect you think I can help.
I will try to answer them to the best of my capabilities. If I find them interesting enough (like someone else needs to know too) I will share them here. Don't worry, whether you send your name or not, I will always withhold your identity.

P.s Visit my Facebook page (www.facebook.com/janylbenyl) to choose tomorrow's post. Yea, you get a chance to choose too :)

Love always

JB

Have you met these pastors?

Hey Lovelies

Let me know which of these pastors you have been opportuned to meet :)

It's all jokes, don't take me too seriously

1. The paid pastor
This one is your regular pastor that you see in most churches. Usually they lead the branches of well established churches. This is their job and they do not do more than is expected of them. Their sermons are somewhat predictable as they stick to the very safe parts of the bible. They are usually trained pastors.
Their field of expertise, they are well acquainted with the historical background of the bible, they have managerial skills and they are good at following rules and routines.
Greatest distinguishing factor, they have a theological degree, they don't like controversy and are humble.

I like you a lot 4

Here you go lovelies Click on any of the parts you missed to read it -- part 1, part 2 and part 3

He called to check if I was ready. He was on his way.

It was so obvious I would fall for him even before we went on a date. Going out on the date with him was simply going to be the icing on the cake. He was very caring and had a great sense of humor that eased all the tension I felt.

He chose a simple restaurant, which I quite admired. He didn't try to outdo himself to make an impression; nothing too fancy, but very classy, beautiful and serene just like he was. We had such a great time talking and laughing. The evening was just perfect.

Love indeed colours the world. I was happy that I made this trip and had the opportunity to meet Marvin. We shared something really beautiful together. I appreciated the dichotomy of incredibly opposing innate forces we exhibited. We'd play and mess around, dance a mosh, and then sit back and talk about very deep stuff. He intrigued me how he could always be very conversant of whatever page I was on. It was almost like we had known ourselves for so long.

We couldn't even hide the way we felt about each other from everyone else afterwards. I knew it was just too early to be acting all smitten but I just couldn't help it. It didn't even help to realize that the feeling was mutual. He would look for every chance to make everyone know we were now together. Before we knew it, everyone was calling us the hottest couple. They said we looked so perfect together. 

I didn't want to think about the fact that our days in Italy were gradually coming to an end.  I just wished I could stay there and spend every day with him forever, but work was beckoning and we needed to go home.

Health talks: Impossible is nothing - Monique, a case study

Hey lovelies
I have heard severally when people say that it is impossible to choose the healthy path. Monique just proved that everyone can do it. She went from 300 pounds to 218 and she is 45 years old.
If Monique can do it, you too can.

The aim should always be about trying to hit the healthy mark. Not skinny, not fat, keyword - HEALTHY!
She stressed the fact that she didn't use pills neither did she undergo any surgery, just the good ol exercise that we all hear about. She has been sharing her progress constantly on her twitter page.
If you ever need inspiration, just head on to her twitter page - https://twitter.com/moworldwide
Let the pictures speak

Liebster award again

Hey lovelies
I decided to remedy the intermittent posting that has been going on here for a while now. I decided to start things off with a blog series #oneposteveryday to get in the mood. It's as self explanatory as it sounds. For one week, I will be posting everyday on different categories. It is your treat, just for leaving you for so long :)
First off, I will be accepting a blog award from Ms Tizzle of www.mstizzle.worpress.com
She nominated me for the Liebster award a while back, and I need to get that out of the way. (Sorry dear, this took so long. I actually forgot it in my drafts.)
I also received another one recently from Didi of  www.didis-view.blogspot.com

I've already received this award in the past (Click here) but I'm always happy to be nominated.
This time it's not even one but two :)
I really appreciate it Didi and Ms.Tizzle 

Here are the rules:

1. Thank and link back to the giver.

2. Answer the giver’s questions.

3. Nominate five other blogs with fewer than 200 followers.

4. Ask five questions for one’s nominees to answer.

5. Post it on your blog

Music crush

Hey Lovelies
So I have this funny feeling of letting music get so much to me
*confession time* Let's not beat around the bush then 'scratches head' erm 
I crush on guys with delectable voices, a very select few tho. Some things must add up, I don't even know what the criteria are but I just know that some of the voices werk more than some :)
So after being completely smitten by Usher's voice for yonks, Trey Songs came along to give me more tough times. Tough times knowing that these guys are several seas, mountains and oceans away, usually makes me feel that perhaps we are not the same. They can sing so well like that just because you know, just because of anything that I cannot exactly comprehend. But maybe I can meet them one day and ask them to sing for me, ok, at least how they manage to be so breathtakingly great 
*ok snap back to reality*
One day, I stumbled upon May D and it was like I was knocking on heaven's doors. Finally, there was a guy with same Nigerian blood who could send shivers down my spine just by singing some sweet melodies. Massive awwwwwww
Unfortunately, something happened *big sigh* I saw MayD and he was different from the kinda guy I pictured with that voice. Don't get me wrong, it is not what you think, no matter how hard I try to explain this you will not be able to understand, so let's just leave it, ok? Lol

But one fateful day I discovered the breathing dopeness called Praiz Jeez! that voice can send an insomniac patient to sleep, but in my case, it literally sets me flying in the sky. I could listen to that rich baritone all day, all night.
Lest I forget, throw John Legend somewhere in the mix too, I absolutely adore his voice. Praiz's voice reminds me of John Legend's.
Why can't all guys sing so well? Oh well, I can't sing myself :)

Currently listening to "Rich and famous"
Have you heard it?

What do you think of Praiz's vocals?

He's one of my best in the scene for now

Love always

JB

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