Monday, 22 September 2014

Inspiring you! Embrace your flaws

Hey Lovelies

I do not believe there is anyone who sees themselves as completely perfect. There is always that one thing you wished was a little different; sometimes, it is as bad as something that requires a real transformation.

Amazingly, sometimes, it is our strengths that tend to reveal themselves to us as weaknesses.

I have had several people look at me and compliment my frame and wished they had a body like mine. I always say 'thanks' and pretend as if I do not wish I was more curvy. I look at myself sometimes in the mirror and wish I could slap some hips on. I never wish for so much. I do not hope to wake up like Beyonce, "but a little bit of it wouldn't hurt", I always tell myself. Then I walk down the street and I still get people telling me how fit and pretty I look. What can I say? You just need to embrace every part.

I've also learnt to understand that God knows what is perfect for us and grants it to us in abundance. I have the perfect dance body, sometimes I wonder how God knew how to match that with a heart that is passionate for dance. I know most of you know I used to be a very active dancer. While everyone would take some days for weightloss programs, I will take some days to sit infront of my TV and just relax and eat. I never needed to do all those obligatory workouts and I was still very fit slim. 

At that point, I understood how to appreciate all the good parts and accept the parts that are not so 'what I'd prefer.'
No one is truly perfect, your idols are not either. They have struggles they have to deal with every day. They just understand how to push the great sides.
It has been working a lot. When people see me, they see an extremely confident lady, who does not have any worries at all. Flawed! Totally flawed! 
Embrace your flaws and work with them. 

I wish I could tell you categorically how much you're missing because you have failed to recognize your worth. Shove your worries under your pillow when you wake up in the morning and put your best foot forward. You are great, even though you are far from perfect. You are beautiful even with all your imperfections. You have something to offer the world just the way you are. 

Dear lovelies, Now you know my little secret. Flaws and all, I have learnt to accentuate the positives and eliminate the negatives.
Do not ever feel the need to crawl into any shell, put your best foot forward and make it worth while. 

Love always
Twitter: @janylbenyl 


  1. Thank you Ms JB
    God bless you

  2. Janyl!!! This is a nice post. It's always very easy to see the good bits of someone else's figure but not ours.

  3. I agree with you. God knew what he was doing when he was creating each and everyone of us. If you don't have it, then you don't need it to fulfil your purpose in life!

  4. Ehmmmmm Mother You said and I Quote ""I know most of you know I USED to be a very active dancer"" **Scratches Head.. Mother why is it in Past tense?! You are a very good dancer nah, we haf watch you and taya on Youtube :) #StalkingGeneration :)

    You are right Ms. Janyl, until we are able to appreciate the ""Supposed and seemingly"" negatives in our lives, we will never really appreciate the positives. Its funny how that which we dont think is good enough, is wanted so dearly by others...Anyway thats one of the many Ironies of life i guess, Some would die to become like others, and someothers would die to be like them. Crazy world i guess. Thanks Blog Mother, read this on Monday and just had to come back again :)

  5. Aww thanks Lovelies
    Y'all make my day with your comments always
    @JDB LOL
    Thank God I have vids because this past tense is so real these days :)

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