Friday, 5 December 2014

Why I respect Kim Kardashian

Hey Lovelies
I know a lot of people would like to disagree with me because they just believe that Kim Kardashian should be hated, "I mean after all she's done, Why not?"






I personally do not like how she likes to act like an annoying and naive teenager sometimes, but I do respect her for her courage and bravery. And I will tell you exactly what I mean.






We all have seen how people have taken advantage of her in the past,  but she hasn't allowed that to put her down. I saw a video where she cried because some people promised to cover her up with artwork after she posed for some nude pictures but later went behind her back and released them uncovered or unaltered. (See the naive teenager thing?)
We've also witnessed severally how Ray J tries to basically rob her of every dignity she might have had left, since he released their sex tape.
But here is something that she has been very consistent with. She has never allowed any circumstances in her life shatter her, she never succumbs to them.

While most people were so curious to see her life go down the drain and they were asking questions like "Where is Kim?" after her sex tape was released, she did not bury her head like her whole world had crumbled, instead she managed to dust it off and comeback with "Keeping Up with the Kardashians" as she continued to give herself a reason to keep on living. Now that is a feat and I can recognize it because I know how bad things could go. Ask girls that have wasted their lives after having a bad relationship and you will know what I'm talking about. 
I personally have been so intrigued to see how a woman can rise above all of that to become what Kim has managed to become. A lot of women in her shoes would have been so afraid to face a world that didn't even hate them that much and resorted to suicide, but she braves through it every single day. 

After marrying Humphries, she realized it was a bad decision. A lot of women without much societal pressure and negative prying eyes would have stayed and endured just to get people off their backs, but she didn't. I saw a video where she and Chris had a discussion and I was too sure marrying him was a huge mistake. But how many people can really get over a mistake, stop berating themselves for it and move on? Look around! 

Think it is easy to open up to someone and allow them to love you just as much as Kanye does after all she's been through? Try it. 

I know a lot of women that have allowed their past to hunt them forever. I strongly believe that women who think their lives have come to an irreversible stand still just because of bad decisions they made at one point in their lives and have never been able to forgive themselves or believe they deserve anything good can learn a lot from Kim. Yes, you read that right.
Perhaps, the people who have tried to crucify her for not wallowing in self pity can actually learn how to get over their sadness and do something with their pathetic lives too. 

I just do not like to see anyone victimized. She deserves to live freely just like everyone else. 
I don't understand or support most of the things she does, but I am sure it is because she knows that people care about the things she does, so she goes about the ones that will get them talking the most. Like seriously, why would she need to "break the internet" if she didn't know that a lot of people cared if she was the one broken or the one breaking something? I see most of the things she does and I feel bad because I know she is just trying to outlive all the hatred. You do not need to love her to stop hating her, I don't.  I don't hate her and I cannot say I am a fan either. 

I do not understand how people can delight themselves in just being mean.
How many people are busy hunting Ray J down? Or is it because they did not expect any woman to be able to survive anything like that and still act like it is not getting to them at all? 
Seriously, I think Kim deserves a chance to just live life like every other person and people should understand to just let her be. 
I believe her family wants her to pull through all that negativity and do something with her life. Her daughter needs her too; what she really needs is the whole world leaving her to live and breathe freely. She made a few mistakes at the start, she probably will make a few more tomorrow, no one is perfect. It is time for everyone to leave her and face their own issues. You do not need to love someone to be able to respect them. Just my honest opinion!


Have a lovely weekend
And remember to treat people how you'd love to be treated

Love always
JB

Twitter/Instagram: @janylbenyl

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8 comments:

  1. I typed a really long comment and blogger swallowed it.

    Crux: As much as people gripe because she doesn't have a creative talent, she certainly has one for making money and that's why i respect her. She has chosen to live life on her own terms and by her own rules.

    I wonder how much hate people would display if cameras followed us all and broadcast our activities on a daily. Just because our "deeds" doesn't get broadcast doesn't make us blameless

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  2. I strongly agree with all the reasons u gave, she's a great woman anyhow you wanna put it cos she doesn't live for what people say

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