Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Career Talks: Opt for a steady climb

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Opt for a steady climb by Janyl Benyl
First things first, when you think of success, think of why you want it. Ask yourself this question.
"To show people that you too can be rich?"

Also ask yourself how you want to go about getting this wealth.
Seriously, Ill gotten wealth can torture your very existence. If you want it, it's best to do it right.



One of my readers sent me a message the other day. I had some free time so I had a quick chat with him. 
He was depressed because he was working so hard whereas his friends that were putting in less efforts were "very successful." They were driving fancy cars and basically 'living the life'. While he on the other hand felt like a total failure. He was sure that following the process he was going through, he would still be in the toiling phase for a couple of years before things ever started to look gleam. He felt bad for ever considering the longer route when there were so many faster lanes he could have taken.
The first thing I asked him was, what does success mean to you?
He said of course you want all that and all that but at the end of the day, you want money to take care of your every need. It is very important. 

I was laughing because from speaking with him, I knew he had something to be very proud of. He was putting in the time to build something that gave him joy to do. The only difference was that things like those could take time. 
Don't be afraid to take the longer routes. Let people understand you are not in a competition with them. You do not have to compromise. You can have it all, money, happiness and fulfillment. 
That takes time to build and you have to take it slowly sometimes. Success is not just about succeeding; for me, it is about sustaining success. You cannot expect to build something great with just a few strides. If you rush it and put it up, that's how fast it would go down as well. There is a building/sowing process then a waiting period, then comes harvest. 
However, let me point out that it depends on what you are trying to reap at the end.

Let's illustrate this a little bit with farming. 
What do you want to be successful at? Tomatoes or cocoa?
'Cause if you plant tomatoes, you will harvest your fruits in a few months, whereas if you plant a crop like cocoa, when everyone around you is enjoying the fruits of their labor, you are still toiling. You might want to give up. But the truth is, years after their tomato would have withered, you will still be reaping your fruits. Don't be in a hurry. Fast money doesn't last. Take your time and allow yourself to grow in the process as well. It makes a whole lot of difference. 

Focus on building something sustainable. 
No matter what career you're choosing, do not try to find shortcuts to avoid going through the process. More often than not, you need the experience than you need the results.
It is so common to see people try to substitute hard work for quick fixes. You cannot sustain a good career with quick fixes. You need the training. Spend the time to give it the work it deserves.

Love always
JB 
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